Things Everyone Should Know If They Have A Crush On Someone

“You can close your eyes to the things you don’t want to see, but you can’t close your heart to the things you don’t want to feel. Johnny Depp

Life is full of missed opportunities and regrets. It seems impossible sometimes, to let out your romantic feelings.

If you have a sharp memory, it’s even harder because you can’t take it off your head.

How do you act if you have a crush on someone then?

Pablo Picasso said, “Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone.”

If you like someone, you should absolutely make a move and let them know. You get to do it. You must do it because if you don’t, someone else will.

Can you imagine how would you feel at that time?

I know how terrible this feeling could be, and I hope that following these simple steps could help you to avoid the struggle.

I want to help you, I want you to be happy

1. Don’t Rush It Before They Notice You

“Love is an admiration that comes with patience. Lust is an admiration that comes with impatience. Israelmore Ayivor

Let’s face it, it takes time to get used to someone and not consider them as a stranger anymore, and it takes time to understand someone’s personality. What if you have a crush on somebody that it’s not a good fit for you?

I am not saying that you need to keep delaying the time waiting for the right moment, because “the right moment” might never come.

However, when you make sure that at least the other person has seen you before or you have had some spontaneous interactions, your next step won’t be a surprise to them and your chances to succeed will be higher.

Otherwise, they will be like; what! When! How! Who are you? Excuse me?

2. Eyes Never Lie

“Listen with your eyes for feelings. Stephen Covey

In French, they say: “ Loin des Yeux, Loin du Coeur.” Yeah, you are allowed to use Google Translate this time!

Eyes are a mirror of the soul and the heart. Unless the person you are interested in is an actor or has a very high emotional intelligence (EQ), their eyes can’t disguise their feelings.

Paying attention to this detail may be the most crucial key to evaluate your options.

3.Don’t Overthink Every Interaction You Had

“The head thinks. The heart knows. Rasheed Ogunlaru

-“Yesterday, we were at a work event, and suddenly he sneezed so hard, do you think this is a sign he likes me?” She is asking her best girlfriend.

-“Today, she said good morning. But, at 12 pm! It’s late; Do you think she is into me?” He is asking his buddy who has never been in a relationship.

Despite endless small interactions that could happen and some of it could be an expression of interests, you shouldn’t let your crush become an unhealthy obsession.

It could take over your life and make you perform poorly in other tasks like work and study, or it could also affect your relationships with friends and family

4.Don’t Make These Mistakes

“An error doesn’t become a mistake until you refuse to correct it. Orlando Aloysius Battista

Although that there is no proven science about this list of don’t(s), there are some points that could kill a potential relationship at an early stage.

– Don’t send 100 texts at once; one is enough!
– Don’t accept last minute invites; you’ve got things to do. Remember this.
– Don’t start small meaningless talks. i.e. how are you, good, where do you live, where do you work,
excellent, bye
– Don’t show too much attention
– Don’t creep them on social media and don’t shock them with the questions like: “So how was your uncle’s vacation
in Italy back in ’05?”

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5. You Definitly Should Let Them Know

“The first step is you have to say that you can. Will Smith

YOU MUST LET THEM KNOW; YOU MUST MAKE A MOVE.

I would love to tell how? Direct way or a more subtle one! But definitely, it’s not today’s topic

6. Save Your Time

“There’s nothing like rejection to make you do an inventory of yourself. Will Smith

Once you show your crush interests, the good news is that you have saved your time. The bad news you’ve got to deal with one of these two situations and both are hard to manage.

Either the person has mutual feelings and you will start to get to know each other on a deeper level, or you get negative vibes. Consequently, you have to deal with it.

First, any answer different than yes we should, sure or something similar, you should consider as a no. Naturally, a person who is interested in you will find a way to let you know sooner or later.

Second, if you don’t move on, you will get fried with your thoughts. Stay away from your crush, a huge NO for a friend zone. It’s not because your crush is not a nice person. They are just not the right person for you at that time. If you stick around, you will be suffering every day, and you won’t be able to forget about them; you will get classified as a friend, and in case one day for some reasons they are ready for a new experience it will be indeed with someone else, not you.

Finally, instead of losing yourself in them, focus on yourself. You will have a chance to find a new hobby, define the people you are compatible with, improve some points in your personality, style or social circle and improve communication skills.